Woman raped second night of college, drops out to live in wilderness
HOUGHTON — One in four women will be a victim of sexual assault while at college. One woman who turned her experience into an inspirational story.
When Massachusetts-native Aspen Matis stepped onto the campus of Colorado College her freshman year in 2008, she had no idea that in less than 48 hours, her entire life would change. Aspen was raped her second night at college and when school officials dismissed her claims, she dropped out and headed to the wilderness.
She’s now in Houghton to tell her story to students at Michigan Tech.
“Girl in the Woods” Author Aspen Matis said, “I wanted to also show how a rape was not the end of my life. It was the beginning of something bigger and to show how that is possible and also because it was a wild and dangerous story in which I almost died a lot of time on the trail and kind of a great adventure felt worth capturing and sharing.”
Following her rape, Aspen backpacked the Pacific Crest Trail, traveling alone for six months from Mexico to Canada.
She then took the writing that she did on the trip and put them together in her memoir ”Girl in the Woods”…published in 2015 and now an international bestseller.
Matis said, “I think all trauma and all loss puts you in a place of a choice—you’re at a juncture. You can either curl up in a fetal position on the floor and wallow and cry and kind of just give up, or you can stand up and decide that you’re going to help yourself and you’re going to leave this place, metaphorically, usually—though I literally left it—and you’re going to do the work you need to do to help yourself, to take care of yourself, and you’re going to listen to yourself and honor what you need.”
In addition to becoming a successful author, Aspen has been a speaker for RAINN’s national anti-sexual violence campaign (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network) and an advocate for trauma survivors.
She now lives in New York and is attending Columbia University.
Her book “Girl in the Woods” is available online and in bookstores everywhere.
Aspen is speaking tonight on the campus of Michigan Tech starting at 8pm in Fisher Hall room 135.